How Inappropriate
Sunday, January 25, 2009
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Smlm I attended a wedding..my FBIL wedding actually..kt dewan dkt2 sini je..sbelah pengantin perempuan..nak cite sket la kan..kalau ikutkan dulu rumah aku ngan ZFH dekat..mcm 5 minit jln kaki je..kalau naik kete, br je nak start enjin, dah smpi..hihihi..nk stress la yg rumah kitrg ni dkt..tetapi..rumah FBIL n his wife is a lot nearer..half my distance to ZFH's house..smlm nenek sedare dia tanye aku duduk mner sume..last2 sume ckp.."Takde mslh la nk balik raya cmni"..
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Diriku plak mmg x sihat smlm..tp ku gagahi juga..demi nak menunjukkan muke..tp lepas je blk tu, singgah umah ZFH jap, pastu bdn makin x sedap..aku mintk excuse nak balik umah terus..time slm ngan FMIL, terus dia ckp.."Hiisshh..panasnye bdn Hanis, xpela, gi la balik berehat dulu.."..balik terus kiok n demam panas..tu la, aku berjalan mcm org sihat kan..padan muke..sape suruh..
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Aku nk cite bende lain tp biasa la..mukadimah harus kite melalut dulu..selalu kalau kite pegi kenduri kawin kan..orang perempuan selalunye akan pakai baju kurung dan baju2 yang sewaktu dengannya..wud u really dare to wear baju besides baju kurung..kebaya sme tu ye la..i mean, wud u wear a jeans to a wedding event..ppuan ye..coz smlm tgh2 aku tgk kt facebook, adela kwn2 diorg upload gmbr n nmpk la seorg PEREMPUAN in memakai seluar jeans..mcm xde baju lain kan..ape la salahnye kalau pakai baju kurung..bkn lame pun, plg lame pun 2 jam..lepas tu ko nak buang bj tu ke ape ke, suka hati la kan..tp please..please jgn pakai jeans to a wedding..it's a fashion don't..
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Kalau aku nye majlis, aku hrp sgt xde org pakai jeans..lelaki nowadays ni agak common la pakai seluar jeans, but i wud prefer them to wear Baju Melayu..they look handsome wearing it..but somehow, i don't think they realize it..anyway, my fiance pun pki suar jeans gak gi wedding..but kalau lps kawin, aku x kire, aku akan srh dia pakai Baju Melayu..siap ngan sampin sume..by hook or by crook..ceh...but seriously, mmg aku hrp dia akan pakai baju yg appropriate ke majlis org..coz people spend a lot of money n their time to make that event looks perfect, but if we as a guest cud not dress properly, then i dont think its ok n fair..so much effort but kite sambil lewa je..sedih tau..its like x respecting people's event..
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Cube kalau pegi wedding kt Dewan Perdana Felda..how come everybody come n dressed up properly..to the nines..sbb tau, tmpt tu cm ade class, then kite pun nak ikut same la kan..personally, x kira la org buat kt dewan ke, balairaya ke rumah ke..kite patut menghormati tuan rumah..cume pakai elok2 je..kalau hari raya tu boleh plak pakai Baju Melayu..hari2 biasa xmo plak..abis baju buat mahal2 simpan utk pakai setahun sekali..
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Aku dr sekolah dulu mmg suke tgk lelaki pakai Baju Melayu..kt sekolah Teknik dulu, hari Jumaat je budak lelaki kene pakai Baju Melayu..wah..perasaan aku ni mcm lelaki tgk majalah Playboy..boleh..bak kate Afdlin dlm cite Sumolah.."Bontot"..hahahaha..nak buat cmne, dah mmg aku tertarik kt situ..oh ye, speaking of which, nanti aku nak buat entry psl lelaki2 HOT..br best..menarik skit..
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Kalau jodoh aku panjang, kenduri aku nanti, diharap sume yg dijemput memakai baju yg sesuai..it wud make my BIG day a lot better..(^_^)
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January 25, 2009 9:51 PM
uiksss kene lah aku suh adlee pkai baju melayu lak p kenduri ko nnt hehhe
January 25, 2009 11:27 PM
ye arrrr.. aku pakai baju melayu ar dtg.. hish.
ekeke..
January 26, 2009 10:06 PM
then i think u shud emphasize the dress code in the invitation cards for ur wedding.. otherwise ppl wud not know, right..
anyway, im sorry but i beg to differ.. for me.. i dun mind wearing jeans to a wedding.. and for my wedding.. i think i wudnt care how ppl dress as long as they attend the wedding.. that wud be more meaningful for me.. :)
whatever it is, it is just my 2 pennies.. lain org lain citarasa.. right?
January 27, 2009 9:00 PM
to Juelee n Sobby - terima kasih..
January 27, 2009 9:05 PM
to Afizah - yup, to put the dress code in my invitation card is what I hv on my mind..sbb nowadays, kene bgtau betul2..i love malay tradition..i'm traditional..so, i just love the atmosphere of a true malay wedding..like in those days..
but like u said, lain org lain taste..everybody can hv their opinion..i respect yours..i may look simple tp ade bende2 tu i'm quite perfectionist..hehehe..
January 28, 2009 12:10 PM
setujut!
January 28, 2009 12:56 PM
kut ye pun setuju, xkn emphasize smpi tertaip setujut..hehehe
January 29, 2009 8:30 AM
saje nak bagi stress sket kat situ har har har...